Chemistry or Compatibility?

“If you keep chasing fireworks, you’ll miss out on your fireplace.” -Ibbie

Fireworks don’t last and often lead to chaos.⠀

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Yet this is what gets us the most excited. ⠀

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We seek out fireworks (or chemistry) which often gets us caught up in unhealthy relationships.⠀

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They move fast, they’re super intense and they captivate our attention quickly.⠀

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And once the intensity dies down, the toxicity swoops in. ⠀

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And you find yourself in an unhealthy, toxic and even abusive relationship.⠀

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Whereas the fireplace is warm, cozy, comforting, peaceful and consistent.⠀

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It builds up slowly and takes time to create warmth around a room.⠀

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And it only dies if you put the fire out. ⠀

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What type of love do you think is more sustainable overtime?⠀

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Definitely the fireplace.⠀

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Oftentimes we think that instant sparks and chemistry means you’ll have a great relationship with someone.⠀

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But instant spark and chemistry does not always equal compatibility. ⠀

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Yes fireworks are exciting, thrilling, & adrenaline pumping.⠀

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But after they’re lit, they only last for a few seconds before dying away forever.⠀

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Choose warm, comforting, & peaceful fireplace love. ⠀

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You deserve the BEST!